The Intentional Leader: Balancing Ambition With Authenticity

Season 6, Episode 11 

Guest: Nicola Kastner, CEO, Event Leaders Exchange (ELX)

Nicola Kastner, CEO of Event Leaders Exchange (ELX), joins host Courtney Stanley for an honest and inspiring conversation about leading with authenticity, clarity and purpose. She shares how authenticity shapes influence, how intentional ambition drives impact and why staying true to yourself is the most powerful leadership strategy of all.

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Meet Our Guest:

Photo of Nicola Kastner in blue shirt and black jacket.Nicola Kastner is the CEO of Event Leaders Exchange (ELX). ELX is an invitation-only global community that unites senior corporate event leaders across all industry sectors from large companies. Built upon the ethos that “it’s lonely at the top,” ELX fosters an environment where senior leaders can exchange ideas and best practices with peers in similar roles through curated in-person gatherings, digital discussions, a robust resource library, and a member-only Slack group, ELX creates space for authentic, planner-led conversations. 

Prior to ELX, Nicola has held various roles in the consulting, agency and brand sides of the event industry. Most notably, she was the global vice president of Event Marketing Strategy for SAP where she was responsible for designing and optimizing event strategies for events ranging from 25 to 25,000 people. 

Nicola is widely recognized as one of the most respected voices in the global events industry. Her accolades include being named to the Influential EventProfs list by Northstar Meetings Group in 2025, honored as one of Smart Meetings’ Smart Women in Meetings in 2025, featured as a Women Leader in Events by Skift Meetings in December 2024, inducted into the Canadian Meetings Hall of Fame, selected for the Event Marketer B2B Dream Team, and recognized as a Top Woman in Events by Event Marketer Magazine.

Connect With Nicola:

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More About Our Host:

Photo of Courtney Stanley, standing in a blue dress in front of a beige background.Courtney believes that transforming past experiences into impactful conversations through raw, authentic storytelling challenges the status quo, connects people from all walks of life and results in great change for the world.

Courtney is the youngest member to have ever been elected to Meeting Professionals International’s (MPI) International Board of Directors.

She is the recipient of Smart Meetings’ Entrepreneur Award, MeetingsNet’s Changemaker Award, the Association for Women in Events (AWE) Disruptor Award, the MPI Chairman’s Award and MPI RISE Award.

She was also named Collaborate and Connect Magazine’s 40 under 40 and a Meetings Today Trendsetter.

Recognized as one of the event industry’s most impactful change-makers, Courtney serves on the Events Industry Sexual Harassment Task Force, AWE’s Board of Directors, MPI’s Women’s Advisory Board, is a Meetings Mean Business Ambassador and is the co-founder of the award-winning movement, #MeetingsToo.

Courtney was named as a 2020 Meetings Trendsetter by Meetings Today.

Connect With Courtney:

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LinkedIn
Instagram: @courtneyonstage
Twitter: @courtneyonstage
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About the author
Courtney Stanley

Courtney is a keynote speaker, writer, podcaster and career success coach with a background in experience design, community engagement and leadership development. Courtney is the host of Meetings Today’s “Dare to Interrupt,” a podcast that provides a platform for the event, hospitality and tourism industry’s most influential and successful women to share their stories of adversity and success, unfiltered.